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Post by Night on Jun 23, 2010 12:16:56 GMT -5
What is love? Is it love if you have fun around him/her, that you trust him/her almost completely even if you feel you don't know barely anything about him/her, you can't get him/her out of your head, your pulse raises so much higher than average around him/her, you know your attracted to him/her sexually or otherwise, you don't want to seem clingy but you think or even know that if you were to be set up with someone else you believe it wouldn't be as good as being set up with him/her, and you know you can't say you love him/her because you're not sure since you know you have some sort of infatuation for him/her... so is it love or the infatuation...? That's what's on my mind. And I'd like some opinions since I never trust my judgement for this stuff so it might help to hear what others say about this. I really want to figure out if that description is love or just really comfortable around him/her. Because I feel like I'm gonna be pissed if I falsly believe that it's love and I end up feeling like this around anyone just to find out it's going to be unrequainted! Since if it is unrequainted then it really isn't meant to be right? Or is it possible over time it could work? I hate having romance on my mind! But the sooner I get answers the sooner it won't bug me!
please select an answer from the poll and post with details and or advice!
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Post by Deja on Jun 23, 2010 12:59:13 GMT -5
I thinks its just plane old infatuation. I had it like a year ago and it sucked ass!
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Post by Agent Paper on Jun 23, 2010 14:02:22 GMT -5
love is just a gut feeling i think. an extreme love is what you see in the halls of school. other than that love is just trying to get close maybe... but thats just my opinion
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kaila
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Post by kaila on Jun 24, 2010 10:50:52 GMT -5
(NOT to be RUDE!!!)
Personally that happens to me every day (for real) and the guy i think of is the guy who i told i wouldnt fail school, and when he need help in school i help. then he asked me out, and my heart and gut said yes. but i said no. if your willing to die over the person, then it's love. if you think and feel it its not.
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Post by riv on Sept 1, 2010 12:21:54 GMT -5
I disagree, I love a lot of my family, but there are many to which I would not die for. There are people I don't love to where I would die for. Love is not a feeling either. A feeling is somethign everyone has, something everyone can do, something that is always there... Love is not a feeling. Love is a strength, and its not something that can be warned about or controled. Love isn't something to say when you look at someone your out of breath. There is not way to decibe love with words, if you feel it you will know what it is, but you haven't then you have nothing to say about it. Love is worth so much, so many people take it for granted, or they don't think on it at all. Infatuation is the more likely of what you're feeling, if you have to ahead question yourself. Love is not a doubt, but it isn't prefect either. When you feel it, you'll understand it.
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